So what do you say to someone whose father and step mom died in a plane chrash? Sorry to be a heavy entry, but I just found out about my friend's dad and stepmom, and I am trippen. She is taking the news very well, and trying to get all the arrangments taken care of. Her brother on the other hand it not doing well. He has become a kind of recluse, and now feels guity about not talking to his father as much, so... Well, anyway I feel much better now writing allthis down. Any advise is well recieved, thanks